Are
you very shy when it comes to new surroundings, such as starting a
new class or moving to a new area? Sometimes, it is necessary to
overcome your shyness and speak confidently. By doing this, it can
help you not only to share your ideas properly to others, but also
to learn communicating with others. Here are a few steps to
consider when speaking with confidence.
Steps
Tips
One of the most important components of public speaking is the sound of your voice. It influences the impact of your message, and might even make or break the success of your speech. Fortunately, for many people, good voice quality can be learned.
10 Tips to improve your speaking voice
Instructions
Steps
- Learn how to have conversations with people. Your ideas or opinions may not always be accepted by others, but this is nothing unusual. Open your mouth, express your beliefs! This will improve your courage.
- Don't be afraid and speak loudly. If you speak in a low voice, not only will others not be able to hear what you say, but you will also portray a submissive demeanor, which suggests the opposite of a confident one.
- Make eye contact when you speak. For one thing, it is polite for others. Also, eye contact will help others to listen to your thinking carefully.
- Praise yourself everyday! This will promote your own
confidence, which is important when you speak. With more
confidence, people will take your thinking more seriously.
Tips
- Don't be nervous when you make mistakes. Human error is far from being a new concept - nobody is perfect! It is normal for everyone to make mistakes. Just calm down and keep speaking bravely.
- Try and try again! This may be difficult for a shy person at first, but you need to force yourself to speak, and not seclude your thoughts. If you have some ideas, then try to speak out! Don't just keep them in your head.
- If you have self confidence issues, try to think that you are the only one who has sound knowledge about the topic. Then go ahead and impart your knowledge to the audience in an effective way.
- Remember that there is a fine line between confidence and
arrogance. Don't portray an exaggerated amount of confidence, or
you will come off as arrogant, believing that your ideas are better
than the ideas of everyone else.
One of the most important components of public speaking is the sound of your voice. It influences the impact of your message, and might even make or break the success of your speech. Fortunately, for many people, good voice quality can be learned.
10 Tips to improve your speaking voice
Instructions
- Breathe from your diaphragm - Practice long and controlled exhales. When you speak, use breath to punctuate your point. For example, take a breath at the end of each phrase whether you need to or not. Use that opportunity to pause and let the listeners absorb what you say.
- Use pitch - Lower pitches generally are more soothing to hear. However, modulating your pitch for emphasis will keep your listeners engaged. Develop your pitch by practicing humming.
- Moderate your volume - Find out if you speak too loudly or too softly. When you begin speaking, ask your audience how your volume is (each situation is different). Try to stay at the appropriate volume throughout your speech.
- Moderate your pace - This one is also closely related to breath. If you speak too quickly, people can't keep up. If you speak too slowly, people will lose interest. Record your speech to determine if you need to change your pace. Get feedback from others.
- Articulate - Try exaggerating your lip movement to reduce mumbling. Practice articulating tongue twisters and extending and exaggerating vowel sounds. Become an expert at articulating tongue twisters as quickly and crisply as possible. Focus on the ones you find difficult.
- Practice your speech in advance and determine where you want to pause for a breath. For more emphasis, pause for more than one breath. Mark your breathing points in your notes.
- Loosen up before you begin. Look side to side. Roll your head in half-circles and roll your shoulders back. Shift your rib cage from side to side. Yawn. Stretch. Touch your toes while completely relaxing your upper body, then slowly stand up, one vertebra at a time, raising your head last. Repeat as needed.
- Posture - Stand up straight and tall to allow full lung capacity and airflow.
- Record your voice repeatedly using different ways of speaking. Determine which one is most pleasing.
- Practice breath control - Take a deep breath, and while you exhale, count to 10 (or recite the months or days of the week). Try gradually increasing your volume as you count, using your abdominal muscles-not your throat-for volume. Don't let your larynx tense up.
Post Comments
mani76 said – Sun, 14 Dec 2008 13:21:31 -0000 ( Flag Edit Link )
two suggestions :- 1. start avoiding that person for some time. 2. try finding out the things that person is interested in…. while u are avoiding that person and then if first thing doest work adopt the things which u might have discovered that person is interested in.
krishna2010 said – Wed, 10 Jun 2009 15:00:14 -0000 ( Flag Edit Link )
just praise when they does some good ,speak with smile when they speaks with u bas mi sochtha hu ki kaam hogaya sorry if it would have annoyed u